March 1980 Texas Adoptee Looking For Birthparents

I am a Texas adoptee who was born the week of spring 1980 at Polly Ryan Medical Center in Richmond, Texas. I believe that one or both of my birthparents were in the military, and both worked in restaurants. Birthmother was born in 1957 with two sisters 1960 and 1961. My birthparents were married in February 1979, and were married for six months. I had seizures at birth as well. I had a closed adoption with now Spaulding For Children based in Houston, Texas. My birthfather was born in 1958. Over the past few years I have had adoptee angels working to filter through public records looking for a possible connection. I have had names checked as if I knew who they were, then I could receive my original birth certificate from the state. The names that I have right now that have not been checked are as follows:

Birthmother: Darlene Kay (Bennett) Peters
Birthfather: Douglas R. Whitehead

They should still be somewhere near Richmond, Texas today!

Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thank you


Can The Feingold Program Help You

>> Tuesday, January 27, 2009

I just love my book from Jane Hersey "Why Can't My Child Behave?" Thanks so much Jane. I enjoy letting others know about the program. There's so much to learn, and hope to share what I can with my readers so keep coming back for more each day. Together we can learn and achieve so much. Here are some things that you may want to consider.

If your child has one or more of the following symptoms they may be triggered by an adverse reaction to food additives or salicylates. Many of these symptoms may also apply to adults. My family has quite a few of them if not They include by categories:

Impatience (Low frustration tolerance, Demands must be met immediately, Irritable, Cries easily and often, Throws, breaks things).
Short attention span ( easily distracted, doesn't finish projects, doesn't listen to whole stories, doesn't follow directions).
Poor sleep habits (difficulty to get to bed, hard to fall asleep, restless sleeper, has nightmares).
Marked hyperactivity (constant motion, runs, doesn't walk, difficulty sitting through meals, wiggles legs/hands inappropriately).
Compulsive aggression ( disruptive at home and school, doesn't respond to discipline, doesn't recognize danger, compulsively repeats action, unkind to pets, fight with other children, poor self-control).
Impulsivity ( unpredictable behavior, makes inappropriate noises, talks to much, talks to loudly, interrupts, bites and picks nails, skin, chews on clothing and other objects, overreacts to touch, pain, sound, lights).
Frequent physical complaints (headaches, hives, stomachaches, ear infections, bed wetting, day wetting).
Neuro-muscular involvement ( accident prone, poor muscle coordination, poor eye-hand coordination, difficulty writing and drawing, Dyslexia, speech difficulties, difficulty with playground activities, eye-muscle disorder nystagmus, and strabismus, tics, some forms of seizures).

"Why Can't My Child Behave?" By: Jane Hersey, Pear Tree Press Inc. copywrite 2006 pg. 18&19

Note: Consult a physician to rule out illness.

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